Christmas Day I Was Mad And Worried

Christmas day I was mad and worried all day.  We felt so poor could not give each other the least presents.  - Frances, December 1891

As the school year and work projects wind down, I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel.  Now, on my first full day off, I planned to finish shopping for presents, start prepping for holiday parties, and cook/bake up a storm.  As with years past, I seem to have forgotten that other people had the same idea!  Roads are clogged, parking lots are a nightmare, and all the store-brand egg nog supplies are long gone.  

Frances had a lot on her mind when she wrote this brief entry.  They were considering moving to a new town, and unsure of their finances.  Even in the late 1800s, Christmas came with big expectations.  Sometimes, we can't afford gifts.  Sometimes, we are weighing a major life decision.  Sometimes, we are just anxious about the future.  

During this hectic time of year, I hope you can take a moment to breathe.  Remember what is important to you - be it family, travel, solitude, faith, or anything else.  It's not about the presents.  It's about being true to yourself.